| Location | Gravesend |
| Age | 45 years |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 18/07/1960 |
| Date of Death | 18/12/2005 |
| Visitors | 1,736 since 08/02/2007 |
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Our mum susan is the most honest, caring person i have ever met in my life.
Mum never had it easy she brought up myself and 2 brothers on her own but she kept smiling everyday, did the best she could. Mum met my stepdad an married in 2000 that was the first time i see her truely happy.
For 24 years my mum worked as a care assistant at many hospitals she was loved by the staff an paitents and always did everything she could to help. Even if she was ill mum would be at work she truely loved her job and many friends along the way.
In september 2005 we noticed after a holiday that mum didnt look well and found out she had a dvt after treatment we was told it was gone but that was the last of our troubles.
while at work mum collapsed in a&e the staff thought she was dying but mum perked up half an hour later for 3weeks mum sat in hospital waiting to go home but we all knew something wasnt quite right :(
The day before mum was due home something scared me to death, mum rang a few times saying the same thing she was forgetting everything. The last call was cut short i never got to say i love you
Early hours of the next morning we had the nightmare call mum had a stroke and later that night she went to ITU. For 2 days we didnt know what was wrong only that she had 40% chance of living then we got the final blow mum had Locked in sydrome a very rare condition.
The final week of mums life was awful not knowing what to say and trying not to cry. Mum could hear us an see us but not move or communicate although she learned to blink to communicate.
Sadly on 18th dec i visited mum for the last time an noticed something different the sparkle had gone from her eyes. I never got to say goodbye as i didnt want to wake her an hour later we recieved a call to say mum had passed away.
Mum you really was my best friend everyday we would be together or on the phone, you was the one who i could trust. you were there when i had nightmare times in my life and you helped me to live again. All that time i was in hospital you was there everyday without fail, when i had bradley you were the first to hold him.
When we would go out on xmas party for the hospital we had such a laugh, although i was always drunk you was still proud to call me your little girl.
You would be so proud mum bradley so bright an funny, although you never met jack hes so much like you he takes your photo to bed with him every night. keirens children Skye and Riley are beautiful mum you would be proud.
See you oneday in the future mum, miss you so much. Please take care my babies an hug my big sister we never got to meet .
Please look at this site an support Michelle wheatley
She a lovely lady who is a real fighter with Locked in Sydrome. A loving mother who needs all the support she can get and her family who are working had to support her and bring her home
http://www.michellewheatley.co.uk/
:( mum i miss you so much.
I know people say it gets easier, it doesn't. There's not a day go by that i dont wish you were here. Every time i look at my boys, its sad that they are missing out on such an amazing woman. Your amazing mum x I wish we had more time, it was cut so short theres so much i wish you could be part of.
My boys look like you mum, Jack always says hes got nannies chocolate eyes :). He loves looking at your photos even puts them under his pillow still. Although you never met him, it feels like you are part of him. He talks about you so much, Bradley misses you too x
Hey mum,
Happy Birthday, sorry its late xx
WIsh you were here to celebrate your special day.
Its bradleys birthday tommorow still cant believe he's going to be 8, wow it has gone so quick. i still remember waking up after i had him, you were there holding in your arms looking so proud :D
Jack's last day at nursery on friday, cant believe he's starting school september. I wish you had met him, hes just like you mum.
I miss you so much xxx
ღ ღ ღ ღ All My Love Beautiful Angel ღ ღ ღ ღ
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*ღ.......ღ* *ღHeavenly *ღ.......ღ* *ღ shona sengupta. ..ღ*
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How will heaven be?
As far as I can see
It will have huge bells
And will be situated on clouds
It will have many golden wells
That will so often swell
Rain will be abundant
And the sun will shine all day long
Angels will play on the harp
The sweetest summer song
Music that will touch the heart
While those beneath will shed drops of sorrow
Little will they know what will happen on the morrow
But to them up above
As plain and clear it will be
As far as far as I can see
Yes there will be misty alleys
And lush green meadows
Fresh with the fragrant smell of spring
Winter will never be bitter
Summer never so hot
Autumn never so bare
And resources never so scarce
Food for all will be relished by all.
Grateful we’ll be as grateful can be
Mountains high and strong and brown
Surrounding that hidden land,
Beautiful and vast seas I see
There colour as blue as sapphire can be
And the white waves lashing upon the shore
Sitting on the flattened grey rocks
Who would not call it absolutely heavenly?
However it might actually be,
But can we still not see
There will lie behind this seen
A relieving feeling of bliss
For where not have we been
But is this not by all believed
That after one’s decease
This is the land of eternal peace
Where we all ultimately reach?
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worlds best mum xx
Hey mum,
Really miss you so much, mothers day just wasn't the same without you.
I love you so much, wish you were still here.
You will always be my best friend the one true friend i could ever have.
i love u mum x
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Tributes for Week Commencing 24th January
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FOR MONDAY
ღBest and most beautiful
ღThings in the world cannot
ღBe seen or even touched.
ღThey must be felt with the heart.
FOR TUESDAY
ღGone yet not forgotten,
ღAlthough we are apart,
ღYour spirit lives within me,
ღForever in my heart.
FOR WEDNESDAY
ღA gift for such a little while,
ღYour loss just seems so wrong,
ღYou should not have left before us,
ღIt’s with loved ones you belong.
FOR THURSDAY
ღPerhaps they are not
ღStars in the sky,
ღBut rather openings
ღWhere our loved ones shine down
ღTo let us know they are happy.
FOR FRIDAY
ღ The Watcher ღ
They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.
And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.
Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.
Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.
FOR SATURDAY
ღ As We Look Back ღ
As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?
For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems
And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?
We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things
Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.
FOR SUNDAY
ღ To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me ღ
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I travelled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memories in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear
Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"
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……………..Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
……………Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Hey mum,
missing you so much, keiren rang tonight said nan sims died earlier :( i guess you already know. Please give her a big hug from me mum and my babies too.
i hate not having you here you are my best friend i just want you here with me.
people say it gets easier but it dont i've lost my best friend, my mum the one person who i could share everything with.
i just want you back mum
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Hey my angel x
Miss you so much right now,
things here are going well were going on holiday soon cant wait mum just wish you could be there with me xx
love you so much x
Hey Beautiful
Missing you loads, wish you was here xx
hope you have a wonderful birthday on sunday mum, were be thinking of you xx dont drink to much hehe
love you x
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